Sunday, June 29, 2014

Thank you Caitlin

Caitlin’s departure from the Charlotte area makes me sad on a selfish level because she has meant so much to me and our running community the past 5 years.  Yet, for Caitlin and her husband, Garrett, it is a wonderful opportunity to take another step forward in their career growth.  They will only be 2.5 hours east of Charlotte so visits/email/fb/twitter/phone calls are always still available.

Caitlin came to Charlotte after graduating from Wake Forest and lining up a job with Bank of America right out of school.  She and I met on Craiglist.  It was not a date and neither of us was trolling for some fetish sexual encounter.  We both were frustrated trying to locate a group to run with.  Either she or I posted a request out on Craiglist. I honestly can’t remember if I found her post or she responded to mine, but after we both did our own independent background checks to make sure we were not running with a serial killer, we met in front of Discovery place after work for our first run.

There are some folks that almost instantly on a run you know you click.  Caitlin is the gold standard for that type of feeling.  I immediately felt comfortable with her and looked forward to our next run.  At the time (2009), I was in my mid 30s and had just started to get back into running.  I had always run since college but over the 10 years proceeding, if I got out for 3-4 runs and averaged 30 miles, it was a really good week.  The marathon bug had caught me and I was in need of a steady training partner for motivation.  Caitlin was attempting her first competitive half at OBX after a terrific collegiate career at Wake Forest.

As we did more runs together, her energy, enthusiasm, and smarts got the wheels in my head turning and before long we had recruited several other local runners as regulars at our morning runs.  Before long, we figured, heck let’s call ourselves Charlotte Running Club to have some identity and grow this thing a bit more.   Charlotte already had a good group of runners but the scene was fragmented and folks did not have a forum to find each other, meet and train together.  CRC and the foundation we built helped provide the opportunity for folks to connect.

Anyone who knows Caitlin has a good story about an experience with her.  I am fortunate to have lots of great memories with her. Heck the name of my blog is a story about her (Uno Mas!). But the point of this blog is to say thank you!

Caitlin Thank you for inspiring me to believe even as I approached 40 and am know a master runner that I can achieve good results.  I have had lifetime PRs from 5k-marathon in my late 30s!  I have trained harder, farther, smarter than I ever did in college.  Most importantly, I have LOVED IT!  Her passion for running is contagious and somehow got me excited to get up at 5am to run track workouts at 5.30am.  I never would have dreamt that would be me!

Thank you for growing the Charlotte Running club.  We have a terrific running club that Caitlin was a huge part in building the club as a founder and multi-year board member. Who would have guessed that FB 7 min pace group would grow well over 100 participants and by posting a run request an hour before a run somewhere in the city that you most likely will have at least 2-3 runners show up!

Thank you for inspiring and encouraging so many women in Charlotte to improve.  Dalena, Michelle, Danielle…I could go on and on but all these ladies were good runners and Caitlin helped build their confidence, train and encourage them to be even better by being a good friend and role model of what is possible.  All three are now sub 3 hour marathoners among other accolades.

Thank you on behalf of all the men who were your training partners and have run lifetime PRs.  I kid Caitlin that she is her own worst enemy with training partners.  She recruits men to push her in workouts and then as they consistently workout with her, they get better and become faster.  Several have gone on to do quite well in local races.  Heck, Caitlin was kicking my tail when we first met and I grew into a much better runner.
Thank you for your connections.  I have name dropped Caitlin a few times to help an athlete get into an event or have checked with Caitlin before going to a new city on vacation as to whether she knows anybody there.  All those experiences went well. 

Thank you for encouraging me to coach and for all the coaching you have provided to our running community.  Caitlin has the intelligence and experience to provide sound training advice to your athletes and to your coaching peers such as myself.  I know I can always engage Caitlin in a helpful discussion about training approach for current and prospective athletes that I coach.

Thank you for being a friend.  Above and beyond running, Caitlin listens, empathizes but also never feeds me B.S..  I actually find that type of feedback very refreshing.  Sometimes it is uncomfortable but ultimately healthy for a friend to just tell you objectively their opinion. From time to time I need that candid slap in the face to ground me.  Caitlin has the guts to do this and I am thankful and envious of her courage.

So this morning, June 29, 2014, our last official Charlotte run with Caitlin was just like it always has been. Caitlin showed up, high fived a few folks as a quick low key thank you gesture. We started off on the run and caught-up on various runners, running events, got a good run in, and had a lot of laughs.  Near the end of the run, she turned off before Dowd and shouted later as the rest of us headed towards Dowd. 

Runners/friends come and go as that is the fluid nature of our world. We win some, we lose some.  Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill, you just won the lottery getting Caitlin for the next several years!  Best wishes and I can’t wait until our next run.